Have you ever seen a gorgeous walking down the street with a fat guy? It is common site to see and most guys don't understand why girls go out with these guys. The reason is fairy simple, you don't need to look like Brad Pitt to attract a hot woman - it's all about your personality and attitude. Sure, there are some women who just date guys for their money and not their looks but these are exceptional cases.
Most guys think looks are important for women. It is important for a woman to have a good looking guy but having a great personality and attitude far outweighs looks. Women are wired differently from men and they have different needs and wants. Men will tend to chase any hot looking woman and it doesn't matter if she has any personality.
If you an overweight man, don't feel insecure about your weight. Instead of thinking whether she likes you or not, try to have a good time and enjoy yourself. You notice when you let go of all your insecurities and having a blast, women will automatically be attracted to you. Most guys will try to chase the woman around the bar and try to impress her. Instead, try to be different and not care about anything in the world and have a fun time. Also, treat your date with respect and if you don't know what to say to her - ask questions about herself. Women love men asking them questions.
Here are more things you can do to look and feel more attractive:
1. Don't wear clothes that hide your weight. For example, don't wear a lot of thick clothes but put on clothes that make one of your features look better. If you have big shoulder muscles, wear something that shows it off.
2. Don't pull your pants right up so it covers your belly. Most overweight guys will tend to this and it looks horrible! It's obvious that you're hiding something which is not good in women's eyes. It makes you look insecure.
3. Always smile! One of the things most women are first attracted to a man, is your smile. It makes them feel good inside to know someone notices them.
4. If a woman calls you 'fat', tell her that you think of yourself as Buddha. Tell her if she rubs your tummy you will bring good luck to her just like a Buddha statue. Basically, don't let your weight to be an issue and make fun of it. This will impress the girl because you are confident about yourself and don't really care what other people think. Do the opposite what most guys will do. Most guys will say to the girls that they are big bones and it's not fat - it's muscle.
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